By The Rev. Dr. Carl Grosse

As Denise and I close the sale of our house in Minnesota (one of 8 states in which we’ve lived), we are grateful that wherever we’ve been, God has blessed us with dear people who lift our spirits and warm our hearts. We have also tried to be good neighbors, getting to know the folks around us and doing our best to keep on good terms. Every Christmas, Denise makes chocolates which we deliver to people on our street. Definitely conducive to earning their positive regard. 

With a church, people change more than the location. Generations rise and pass away. People move in and move out. Neighborly methods and tactics might change. Fountain City Presbyterian Church used to have two people go to a visitor’s home after Sunday as a follow up. Years ago, many Presbyterian churches had Mariners groups that would visit the visitors and invite them to their next meeting. I remember Ladies’ Tea socials were a big deal, with hats and gloves and all that.

What’s “sticky” now is what I would call “organic sincerity”, where people genuinely greet you not because it’s their job, but because they want to. Their skills and approaches might vary, but you can tell their heart’s in the right place.  You are becoming more and more proficient at this organic sincerity. When we have visitors, I see different people meeting them well before they get to shake my hand going out the door. Often, you will introduce them to me. Of course, Joe Ben and his minions still give out swag; however, never underestimate the power of your kind greeting with a welcome smile. Add chocolate and you’ll really be a hit!